Restorative justice is partly about the aim that justice processes repair the harm done through domination, whether that is the domination of crime, of war or of school bullying. Because crime and war hurt, justice should heal. Restorative justice has a place for passive responsibility for past wrongs, but is more concerned with stakeholders taking active responsibility for justice as a better future. The process of acknowledging past domination and agreeing to transcend it can be heavily laden with shame. It risks humiliation. Averting humiliation and preserving dignity, individually and institutionally, are important to shame management in restorative justice. These are reasons for conceiving restorative justice and shame management as important to crime prevention and war prevention. Restorative justice is a process for realising values of non-domination by sitting stakeholders in a circle to ask simple questions:
How were people affected?
What needs to be done to make things better?